Dear God,

Remember that list I made like 10 months ago...so i was re-reading it tonight and laughed @ like half of the things on it...most of them are pretty ridiculous in that i even felt the need to include them in the list, however, whatever was going on @ that time in my life...i did just that...here's the list in case you forgot (which i know you didn't oh omniscient one) but here's a refresher, just for my sake...
Qualities I would like for the man that I marry to possess includes but are not limited to or stricken by the following…
(Not in order of priority)

Spiritual (pref. Christian)
Considerate
Appreciates the Small Stuff
Complex Mind w/a Simple Attitude
6 feet or taller
Smarter than me but not pretentious
Handsome/Debonair
Nice teeth (great smile)
Great Hair (not necessarily in texture but more so in presentation)
Great Body
Nice Eyes
Ambitious
Goal-oriented
Optimistic
Confident
Family-oriented
Sexual person meaning that he understands the importance of and enjoys doing so but also enjoys the comfort, intensity, and bond it creates with another person (Superb in bed)
Not addicted to Porn/Sex
Has no past/current history of STD’s
Maximum history 15 partners
Has never been with nor interested in same sex experiences
Patient
Cautious
Driven
Courageous
Athletic (pref. a professional football player)
Swim
Fish
Horse back riding
Golf
Chess/Poker/Spades
No Harmful Addictions
Small-town oriented w/ Big-city attitude
Tough (esp. w/ me)
Passionate
Open-minded but values his beliefs
Organized
Clean
No kids (maybe 1 (over 5 yrs. of age)
Likes children
Can/Likes Cook
Cultured
Likes (to):
i. Travel
ii. Read
iii. Museums
iv. Movies
v. Paintings/Pictures/Art
vi. Music
29. Employed (pref. a career)
a. Enjoys job/career choice
b. Is never complacent with current job, hence always looking to excel or branch out into new endeavors
Spontaneous
Fun
Nice hands & feet
Fashionable but not Flashy
Social drinker/smoker only (no cigarettes)
Chameleon
Has/working towards owning a home
Vehicle
Good Credit
Can dance/sing
Empathetic
Good Listener
Understanding
Humorous but not goofy
Emotional (as in understands the importance of conveying emotions well but is not an impulsive whiner/crier)
Bi-Lingual
Never been w/ another man (sexually)
Appreciates Strong Black Women
Good Medical History
Gentleman
Creative
“Man’s Man”
Always Smells Great (even after rigorous physical activity)
News Conscious
Upstanding Citizen
No Serious Criminal Record
Computer Literate
Has/Wants a Boat
Health-Conscious
Liberal
Democrat
Complimentary
Respects and wants to be apart of the sanctity of marriage
Has a good medical history and comes from a family with the same
Responsible
Loves God & Himself
Learns to love my family, my friends and ME.

...pretty intense huh?!-lol-not so much but pretty obsessive...i mean hey what can i say that's what i felt @ the time and prolly for the most part still feel that way but i'm a little more apathetic these days so half those things don't even really matter to me @ the moment b/c i can't even see myself married anymore...not to say i don't want to be, just saying right now i'm focusing on me, getting my life together...you know i can't be asking for all those things in someone else if my game isn't tight...right God...RIGHT!-lol

...so i guess i'm coming to you tonight b/c i been doing a lot of thinking and i consider myself a pretty cool girl, and while I have cheated on most my sig. others...I know I have been forgiven...right God? Ahh thanks, God, i knew you'd understand! So um yeah to be honest w/you i just need a good guy, you know....not too fast but not too slow either...just somebody by my side to help smooth that thang out...i mean he doesn't even have to have a BIG ole bank account just something well-porportioned to our lifestyles...huh? you say you found somebody? well where is he...ahh thanks God...You're The Greatest!

Amen...oh, excuse me, i'm sorry...ahlady!

patiently waiting w/open arms,

S. Parks!